purposes and goals in each new year, but yes we accomplish what we set out last year? Success is not to look purposes, the real success is to achieve those goals we set earlier. Why people fail to achieve their purposes? Causes
from accomplishing our New Year's resolutions
- Lack of motivation Lack of discipline
- Lack of perseverance or will power
- not set a deadline unattainable goals
Motivation The motivation is one of the most important because that is what drives us to hold fast to achieve our purpose. For example, a person who loves sweets has been diagnosed with diabetes and the doctor said that unless it improves their diet and avoid a lot of food, inevitably die. That person surely will change their eating habits, because your life is at stake. This is more than a motivation, it is a matter of life or death.
However, when we are not faced with a situation such as it costs us more to meet our goals. In these cases the motivation is to be generated, how?, Simple, looking forward and shows the goal already accomplished.
For example, if your goal is to lose weight, be search a picture of someone Slim, trim the face of some old photograph and paste it above the model or the model and put it in the fridge door, so every time you exceed the food or eat some more, I think even better. You can paste a picture in front of the machine such exercises and that will encourage you to not give up when you feel very tired.
If the purpose is to buy a house, a motivation might be to find a picture of a house that resembles the one we want and put it where we always see to it that we feel moved to fight for that purpose.
Discipline Develop a plan of action to achieve their goals where each day you commit to do something about their goal, a call, an investigation, find someone, study, prepare, save, work more, in short, anything that approaches its purpose. It is important to comply fully with this aspect because sometimes we leave it for later and the delay often causes us to lose valuable opportunities to reach our goals.
Willpower
The willpower is the sum of the motivation and discipline, because when we are motivated and disciplined, these two things will necessarily lead to the willpower to persevere, to fight tirelessly to achieve our purpose. But the force of will has to do with the determination you have to achieve the goal. It is the belief that one has of willing and able to meet the target, to be willing to overcome obstacles that may arise, because there always will be, of course. Put
date
Put our goalscompliance date for our goals is a very important aspect to achieve them. The date is like the catalyst that moves us to work for the goal because it makes us think we have a time limit and as such we must act. It is not the same as saying: "One day buy that car" to say, "in a year I buy that car."
The first sentence does not require any effort because "one day" can be either ten or twenty years, or even worse, that day may never come, while the second statement requires us to work, save or do whatever is needed at that time to get what you want. Unattainable goals
One of the worst things we do is we set targets that are not entirely within our reach, or at least as long as we have stipulated. This is probably one of the worst mistakes we can make to propose something, because they inevitably fail and that in turn will be detrimental to our self-esteem, because we do believe that we can not succeed. Why
not achieve our purpose?
Perhaps the reason why we can not accomplish the goals we propose, is because we fail in any of the above. Es.o is that when this happens, we must do a thorough analysis, identify flaws and make the necessary corrections, and in doing so, probably in the future we will have much more success in the attainment of our goals without succumbing to the first obstacle.
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